Case and Commentary
Jan 2010

Zero-Tolerance for Hospital Romance? Commentary 2

Becket Gremmels
Virtual Mentor. 2010;12(1):19-22. doi: 10.1001/virtualmentor.2010.12.1.ccas3-1001.


Romantic relationships were common at Healer Hospital, and the administration’s lenience was a gesture of trust in the professionalism of its employees. After numerous complaints from patients, staff, and students about distracted patient care and favoritism, along with claims of gender-based discrimination and sexual harassment, the hospital administration met to discuss the possibility of new policy.

“We have received some very disturbing complaints about physicians showing favoritism to certain nurses, or nurses and physicians carrying on tense and destructive interactions following romantic relationships that went sour,” the hospital president, Dr. Rhodes, noted. “Such issues corrode collegial relationships and teamwork, and, ultimately, it’s the patients who suffer. That’s unacceptable if we are committed to putting patient care first, not to mention the morale of our employees and the standard of professionalism that we want to maintain.”

Dr. Rhodes suggested a zero-tolerance policy, meaning that no inter-staff dating or romantic relationships of any kind would be allowed among hospital personnel. He proposed penalties for those who violated the policy, including transfer from a department or even dismissal from the hospital.

Others at the meeting argued that such a policy would not stop romantic relationships but would only drive them underground, creating tension between employees forced to conceal their relationships and fellow workers deciding whether to protect them in violation of hospital policy or bring their relationships to the attention of administration. “We will be investigating possible relationships left and right,” opponents of the proposed policy said. “It will be a nightmare, and further undermine trust and teamwork among our employees!” They continued, “We will be punishing people for having relationships with each other—relationships that should be none of our business anyway!”

Dr Rhodes responded, “Their bad behavior makes it our business. Driving them underground protects our patients.”

Commentary 2

The patient is typically at the center of all that health care does, and a hospital’s primary ethical concern is the patient’s well-being. The zero-tolerance case, however, perfectly highlights the fact that patient caregivers are also employees.

The issue of workplace relationships is at the intersection between health care and business, and patient care is not the only ethical concern. James Dubois proposes a framework designed specifically for situations in which “a proposed action conflicts with certain legitimate values or prima facie norms.” [1]. His framework seems ideal for this case because Dr. Rhodes’ proposal conflicts with respect for the autonomy of physicians and employees, clearly a legitimate value.

Dubois’ Framework

According to Dubois, proposed actions that clash with a legitimate value can be justified if they meet the following five criteria: (1) Necessity: is it necessary to violate the value in question to achieve the desired goal, or would an alternative achieve the goal without that violation? (2) Effectiveness: will the action actually achieve the desired goal? (3) Proportionality: is the desired goal proportionate to the violated value? Do the positive effects of the action outweigh the negatives of violating the value? (4) Least infringement: Is this the least-infringing option? Is something done to minimize the violation? (5) Proper process: is the decision a result of an appropriate process? [1] This framework is not an algorithm; legitimate disagreements can and will exist over the answers to each of the five points. What one person believes to be necessary or proportionate, another might not. This framework offers neither infallibility nor certainty, but an approach to delving deeper into the complex moral issues of a difficult case.

Analyzing Dr. Rhodes’ Proposal

Before applying these criteria, the desired goal of the zero-tolerance policy must be established. The immediate goal is the prohibition of dating in the workplace, but it seems overly simplistic to call this the “desired goal.” After all, Dr. Rhodes only desires such a prohibition because he believes it will reduce or eliminate some harmful effects these relationships have on the work environment, harmful effects that include distraction from patient care, favoritism toward certain employees, the “tense and destructive” relationships that develop after breakups, claims of gender-based discrimination, and sexual harassment. Thus, it can be assumed that the policy’s desired goal is to avoid these five harms, inasmuch as they result from romantic relationships between physicians or staff.

Now let’s apply Dubois’ criteria. First, is the zero-tolerance policy necessary to achieve this goal? To answer this, one must determine if alternatives exist and then argue that at least one would achieve that goal without violating the autonomy of the physicians and staff at Healer Hospital. Interstaff dating is frequent in the business world—according to one article, 58 percent of workers have dated a co-worker, 14 percent have dated a superior, and 19 percent have dated a subordinate [2]. Thus, it seems reasonable to look to businesses for alternative approaches. A poll of 40 insurance companies in the Fortune 500 found that 21 had a policy restricting employees’ freedom to date [3]. These companies take various approaches to the topic. Among these policies, alternatives to Dr. Rhodes’ suggestion include (1) prohibiting fraternization only between superiors and subordinates; (2) prohibiting dating only if it would result in a conflict of interest because one employee has responsibility for something that affects the other; and (3) consensual-relationship contracts in which the dating parties declare that the relationship is consensual, agree to review the company’s policy on sexual harassment, and agree to transfer departments if necessary [4]. This last provision protects the company from a future sexual harassment suit, might protect against distracted patient care, and could reduce the likelihood that the employees would interact after a break-up. These alternatives, the third of which avoids violating employee autonomy, should be discussed in addition to Dr. Rhodes’ zero-tolerance proposal.

The second criterion is effectiveness. Will the zero-tolerance policy effectively reduce or eliminate these five harms? It is not possible to answer this question definitively until the policy is applied, since the answer depends on empirical evidence. Effectively prohibiting private behavior between two consenting adults is always difficult. Several members at the Healer Hospital meeting even doubt their ability to implement the policy, arguing that it “will only drive [the relationships] underground.” Moreover, many relationships begin with romantic attractions or crushes, and the harms Dr. Rhodes wishes to circumvent could arise from one person’s attraction for another in the absence of any response on the part of the other person. Attempting to monitor mere attraction would be ludicrous. Even though a definitive answer cannot be given here, Dr. Rhodes bears the burden of proving that the zero-tolerance policy could or would be effective in reducing harmful effects of attraction and romance.

Next, is the zero-tolerance policy proportionate to the harms caused by relationships? This is arguably the most controversial of the five criteria because judgments of proportionality are subjective [5]. Certainly there are many advantages to improving attention to patient care, fostering a collegial atmosphere, and reducing bases for claims of favoritism, sexual harassment, and discrimination. But do these advantages outweigh infringement of employee autonomy outside the workplace? If one views this case primarily as a clinical ethics case, the benefits will likely outweigh the harms because the patient is of primary concern in the clinical realm. (Even in this framing of the situation, though, there are legal limits to the infringement of employee autonomy in the name of patient safety. A recent example is the injunction by a New York judge overturning the mandate that health care workers receive influenza vaccinations [6]). On the other hand, if one sees this primarily as a business ethics question, the harm might outweigh the good; the employee, employer, or customer might come first depending on the scenario [7]. Given that this case is at the crossroads between health care and business, there is not a definitive answer to this question of proportionality. Yet the burden of proof again seems to fall on Dr. Rhodes. He must show that the benefits of the policy are proportionate to such a significant infringement of employee autonomy.

Moving to criterion four, is the zero-tolerance policy the least-infringing option? The alternative policies mentioned above—allowing dating except between superiors and subordinates and in cases where it would cause conflict of interest—infringe less on the employees’ autonomy than the zero-tolerance policy. Adopting any of these alternatives would minimize the violation of the employees’ autonomy. What we cannot know is the degree to which each alternative will accomplish Dr. Rhodes’ goals. But we cannot know whether the zero-tolerance policy will either.

Lastly, is the zero-tolerance policy the result of a proper process? In general, a proper process is one in which decisions are made by the appropriate authority and involve the relevant stakeholders. For public health decisions, a proper process would involve public justification, explanation, and transparency [8]. In human subjects research it would involve approval by an IRB and the informed consent of the research participants [9]. In this case, a unilateral decision by Dr. Rhodes would not constitute a proper process because supervision of employees is under the purview of multiple sections of the hospital administration. The human resources department should have some input into the decision as it relates to staff behavior. Dr. Rhodes might also need the approval of the medical executive committee or a similar body that governs the medical staff. If Healer Hospital employs or contracts with most of its physicians, he might be able to enact this policy contractually. Yet even that involves contract negotiation, not a unilateral decision. At the very least it would likely require the approval of other hospital administrators. Without more knowledge of the administrative structure at Healer Hospital, a definitive determination of the proper process is not possible. Regardless of the structure, a unilateral decision does not seem to constitute a proper process for an issue of such magnitude.


Healer Hospital has experienced serious problems as a result of its permissive policy toward relationships between physicians and other employees. The above analysis, however, shows that there are alternatives to swinging the pendulum all the way in the opposite direction. Dr. Rhodes’ zero-tolerance policy does not meet the criteria of necessity or least infringement, and, although it could result from a proper process, it does not appear to do so at the moment. While we cannot decisively determine here if it would be effective or proportionate, due to the severity of infringement in question, it is up to Dr. Rhodes to show that his policy meets these criteria. Given these factors, Dr. Rhodes should pursue a third option, like consensual-relationship contracts. This would help avoid some of the harms associated with these relationships and minimize infringement on employee autonomy. Ultimately he should pursue an option that lies somewhere between the extremes of zero-tolerance and total permissiveness.

Read More


  1. Dubois J. Justifying decisions when values clash. Ethics in Mental Health Research., Accessed December 10, 2009.

  2. Dubois, 3-4.

  3. Fletcher CJ. Are you simply sleeping your way to the top or creating an actionable hostile work environment?: a critique of Miller v. Department of Corrections in the Title VII context. St. John’s Law Rev. 2006; 80(4):1361.

  4. Lecker MJ. Workplace romances: a platonic perspective. In: Pava M, Primeaux P, eds. Insurance Ethics for a More Ethical World.Stamford, CT: JAI Press; 2007. Research in Ethical Issues in Organizations; vol 7: 262.

  5. Lecker, 270-272.

  6. Hartocollis A, Chan S. Albany Judge blocks vaccination rule. New York Times. October 17, 2009. Accessed December 10, 2009.

  7. De George RT. Business Ethics. 6th ed. New Jersey: Pearson Prentice Hall; 2006.

  8. Childress JF, Faden RR, Gaare RD, Gostin LO, Kahn J, Bonnie RJ, et al. Public health ethics: mapping the terrain. J Law Med Ethics. 2002;30(2):170-178.
  9. Dubois, 4.


Virtual Mentor. 2010;12(1):19-22.



The people and events in this case are fictional. Resemblance to real events or to names of people, living or dead, is entirely coincidental. The viewpoints expressed on this site are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of the AMA.